Why Your Kids' Lessons Must Be Interactive

Let's face the reality. Today's kids are not going to sit and listen to someone drone on and on and on. If you teach kids, you know this.  

Kids are wired to move. They are wired to get involved. They are wired to play. They are wired to squirm.  They are wired to interact. 

But we often revert back to teaching methods that require kids to sit still and be quiet. 

Why? Because it's easier. Because it takes less prep time. Because it's what we grew up with and are familiar with. 

But can I let you in on a little secret? You may already know this because you've experienced it.  I am often amazed how the kids that talked during the lesson, moved around during the lesson, and got distracted during the lesson, know all of the review questions that I ask.  I'm thinking to myself, "I can't believe this kid actually got what I was teaching."

You see...you have two options...you can force kids to sit still and be quiet or you can align with how they are wired and use interactive lessons that will capture and retain the attention of today's kids.

A passive learning experience isn't going to get you the results you want. It's time to use content that requires active engagement. 

The children's entertainment industry understands this. A growing number of companies are starting to  create interactive TV.  This enables kids to pick their own adventures and engage with how they consume and learn best. Kids are able to tap their screen and choose what happens next in the story. 

Interactive TV is just starting to catch on but is expected to grow to a $39.8 billion dollar industry by 2032.  Producers are creating episodes that let children choose what they want to see next at key points in the episode.

In the game Disney Channel Besties, kids can choose which friends from various Disney Channel shows they want to see, and then watch clips featuring those characters. And in Paramount’s interactive trailer for Sonic The Hedgehog 2, kids can choose their favorite character and make decisions for them. 

Another example is the preschool series Mixmups that lets kids personalize how they watch the show, including lowering background noise, simplifying the visuals, and adding content to enhance comprehension.

DreamFlare is a San Francisco based streaming company that is using interactive content as well. Rob Bralver, creative director and co-founder said, "We're in a new frontier of entertainment where you're not just sitting and passively watching." 

Successfully communicating with kids is done through interactivity...now and in the future.  Today's kids are expecting to be able to interact with their content.  That includes the content you are sharing with them at church.

It has been proven that interactive classrooms perform better on measures of student learning. One meta-analysis found that in STEM classrooms with “active learning,” broadly defined, student exam scores improved by about six percent.  It has also been proven that the most effective teachers only lecture 20% of the teaching time. Take a look at the next lesson you are presenting.  How much of it is lecture-based?  You can immediately become more effective if you use more interaction in your lesson.

There are lots of ways you can make your lessons interactive. Here are a few ideas.

Pose a question, have students think individually, discuss with a partner, and share with the class. 

Use interactive games.

Have kids act out the Bible story you are telling.

Movement - use "Four Corners" to make students move to different areas of the room based on their opinion.

Have kids repeat Bible verses, key words, and key points after you. 

Break your lesson up - use short "chunking" methods, alternating brief instruction with quick 2-minute activities.

Use videos that interact with kids in real-time. The person in the video asks a question and then pauses to let the kids respond.  The kids' show Blue's Clues was build on this premise.  It is considered by experts to be one of the most effective shows ever produced to get kids involved and interacting.

Let kids read the verses you are teaching instead of you reading them. 

Provide chalk or a soft toy; whoever has it must answer your next question, and they pass it on to the person of their choice. 

Write questions or prompts onto all surfaces of a beach ball (or tape them on). When the next student catches the ball, he/she answers one of the questions where fingers are touching the ball. 

While you are teaching, have the kids draw pictures of what you are saying. 

Rock Paper Scissors break – kids pair off and play. Let the winners answer some review questions.

Balloon Bust - divide the kids into groups. Give each group a balloon with a discussion question inside the balloon. At your signal, have the groups pop their balloons and discuss the question inside.

Press Conference – Have a kid stand behind a table like a press conference. The other kids can ask him or her questions about the lesson that was taught.

The key to effective teaching is to see yourself as a facilitator rather than a lecturer. Check out this article I wrote about this.

If you're looking for curriculum that gets kids interacting throughout the lesson, then check out Connect12. It's one year's worth of curriculum. Curriculum that is grounded in teaching kids 12 Biblical truths in 12 months. You'll see a big element we've included in the curriculum is lots and lots of time for interaction. You can get more information at this link and see lesson samples, videos, etc. 

Want to Reach Parents? Ask Them This One Simple Question

We know if we want to influence kids, then we have to influence their greatest influencer...their parents.
 
When you reach a child, you change a life. When you reach parents, you change an entire family.
 
Our passion should be to reach not only kids, but their parents as well. 
 
Do you want to reach parents? Then I've got some good news for you. You can reach parents if you will be intentional about asking them one simple question.
 
Let me give you a real time example of the question you should ask. 
 
Our children's ministry had a first-time guest family on Easter. They were an unchurched family. They decided to attend church on Easter, drove by our church and decided to try this "church thing" out.  They came back this past Sunday and when the parents came to pick up their children, they approached me about their elementary kids and teenagers being baptized. 
 
I shared with them that we have a class called Starting Point.  It's a class that kids and their parents attend together. In this class, we explain what it means to become a follower of Jesus.  Last night they came to the class together as a family. This is a crucial step. Don't have a salvation class just for kids. Make sure that parents attend with their children. No drop offs. This is because you want to share the Gospel with the parents as well. 
 
I asked the parents one simple question. 
 
I know you want to see your children accept Jesus and be baptized.  That's great. Let me ask you as well. Have you accepted Jesus and been baptized yourselves?
 
This one simple question will open the door for you to reach the parents as well.  
 
If you want to reach parents, then start using this approach. You will see God do amazing things. 
 
At a church where I served as children's pastor, we saw over 430 children and dozens of parents accept Jesus and follow Him in baptism in one year.  Every child and parent who got baptized that year had been through the Starting Point class together.  You can get more information about the Starting Point class at this link.
 
If you look at Scripture, you will see parents who came to Jesus for one reason. They needed something from Jesus for their child. They needed their child to be healed. They needed their child to be brought back to life.  They needed their child to be set free from demonic possession.  Their first contact with Jesus was because of their children. 
 
This can still happen today.  Parents can be reached through their children. Parents can come in contact with Jesus through their children. Entire families and generations can be reached through children. 
 
The family I met with...in a few weeks the entire family is going to be baptized together.  All because of asking one simple question. 
 
Start asking that question and you will be amazed at what God does in the lives of families.  

An Inside Look at My Summer Children's Ministry Calendar

Summer is a great time to reach and disciple kids and their families. 

It's important to be strategic when you plan your calendar. 

It's not about being busy...it's about being productive. 

Start with your purpose and mission.  Build your calendar from that. What can you do this summer to help advance your ministry's purpose and mission?

Here is a look at the summer calendar of the church where I lead the children's ministry. I trust it will be a help and encouragement to you. 

June 3 - Bible Study and Pizza Night

June 17 - Bible Study and Banana Split Night

June 22-24 - VBS

June 25 - VBS Family Night

July 8 - Bible Study and Water Blast

July 13-17 - Summer Kids' Camp

July 22 - Bible Study and Game Night

August 7-8 - Father & Son Campout

August 9 - Promotion Sunday

August 12 - Mother & Daughter Tea

August 26 - Bible Study and Playground Night

September 2 - Wednesday Night Programming starts back

Your turn. Would love to hear what you are doing this summer. Share your calendar in the comment section below. 

10 Things Senior Pastors Need to Know About Children's Ministry


Do you ever share articles with your Senior Pastor? Articles that explain the importance of children's ministry?  This is one to share if you get the opportunity. 
 
Here are 10 things that every senior pastor needs to know about children's ministry. 
 
Children's ministry needs the support of the Senior Pastor.
 
Senior Pastors should be a top fan of children's ministry. They set the tone for the church when it comes to how people view children's ministry.
 
Does your senior pastor see it as an afterthought or as a vital ministry?
 
Is the success of children's ministry important to your senior pastor?  How do they show that? 
 
The children's ministry staff and volunteers need to know their senior pastor values children's ministry. 

Children's ministry is a growth engine for the church.
 
Do you know the top two reasons people pick a church?
 
-How friendly are you?
 
-What do you have to offer my kids?
 
The fastest growing and largest churches in the nation have something in common. They all have dynamic children's ministries. 
 
If you want to see your church grow, it will happen through reaching kids and their parents.
 
Why do you think parents drive past the steakhouse and eat at McDonald's instead?  It has to do with something called a kids' meal.  Dad and mom would rather eat at the steakhouse, but the kids want to go where there are kids' meals and playgrounds. Normally the kids win that battle.  It is often the same situation with families and where they go to church. 
 
Parents can have a great experience at a church, but if the kiddos come out and say they didn't like it...chances are they are going to find a place where their kids have a great experience.
 
Compensate your children's ministry person well. 
 
If you are a senior pastor reading this, you may have a part-time person leading your children's ministry. They probably won't tell you this, but they are working a lot more than part-time hours.  You are getting a full-time person for part-time pay. This is not fair. Compensate your children's person well. Pay them for what they are worth and for what they are investing in the ministry. 
 
If you do have a full-time person, then pay them fairly. You want their attention to be on the ministry, not on how they are going to put food on the table.  
 
What they do is invaluable for your ministry.  The church will get back financial benefits from the families they help you reach.
 
Children's ministry leaders help you shepherd the flock
 
Children's ministry leaders are a key part in shepherding the entire congregation. They shepherd children, parents, volunteers of all ages, and entire families.  They help you carry the load of shepherding the flock.
 
Buildings and facilities speak volumes
 
The physical space designated for children makes a major statement to families. You can say that you are for children's ministry, but if the facilities for children are subpar, then it says otherwise.
 
If you are trying to decide where to invest the church's money, children's ministry should be at the forefront. It is a mistake to build great facilities for students (teenagers) and adults and then stick the kids in the basement. 
 
Your facilities say one of two things...either we believe in children's ministry or it is not a priority for us. Investing finances in children's ministry facilities and environments is always a win.  
 
Make your children's ministry budget a top priority.
 
Money invested in children's ministry will return to the church many times over.  
 
If you are spending money on new choir robes while your children's ministry has moldy carpet, then something is wrong. 
 
If you are spending more on coffee than you are on goldfish crackers, something is off. 
 
If you are remodeling the men and women's bathrooms while the children's ministry tables and chairs are falling apart, then something is out of sorts.
 
If you are building a new sanctuary while the children's ministry area is old and outdated, then priorities need to be looked at. 
 
If you are spending big money on sound and LED walls for the sanctuary while the children's ministry rooms have old TV's and Veggie Tales VHS tapes, something is off. 
 
If you have 3 full-time people on your worship staff, but only a part-time person in children's ministry, then your personnel budget needs to be adjusted.  
 
I could go on and on and on, but you get the point. One of the biggest budgets in the church should be the
children's ministry budget. One of the biggest staff teams should be your children's ministry team. 

Children's ministry is not easy, make sure you give them time off. 

Children's ministry is no easy gig.  It has so many moving parts. It has the pressure of always having volunteers ready and in place every Sunday. You know this. Sunday always comes back and your children's ministry person has to be ready.  
 
Then there is the load of planning and pulling off events like VBS, camp, parent and child dedications, fall festivals, Christmas events, Easter egg hunts, Bible studies, trips, etc. 
 
Simply put...it is a lot. 
 
It is enough to burn your children's ministry person out if they don't get some R&R.  Make sure you give them days off each week. Provide them with vacation time.  Don't expect them to be at the church five nights a week. Give them plenty of margin to be wih their most important ministry...their family.
 
Ask for their input and advice when planning teaching series
 
Your children's ministry person can help you make sermons relevant to today's parents and families. Are you doing a series about the home? Include your children's ministry person in the planning. Are you doing a series about serving?  Get input from the person that helps lead one of the biggest volunteer bases in your church.  
 
Your children's ministry person knows the pulse of the families. They can be a big resource to you when sermon planning. Does that mean you should use all of their ideas? No. Of course not. But it does mean you listen to them and use what will make your sermon connect better with families. 
 
Summer is your children's ministry person's busiest time of the year.  
 
When we hear adult ministries talk about how things slow down in the summer, we can't help but chuckle. Summer time is full of events and happenings in children's ministry.  Then there is a tiny, small window of down time (like 3 days) before we have to jump right into the fall season of ministry. 
 
Be aware of this and help your children's ministry person guard their time and comp them on a regular basis. 
 
Children are not just the church of tomorrow. They are the church of today as well. 
 
Yes. We are investing in their future...but we are also excited about seeing them come to Christ now, be discipled now, and growing in their faith now. 
 
Children can make an impact now. They can serve now. They can be prayer warriors now. They can learn to tithe now. They can learn to pray and spend time with God now. They can share the Gospel now. They can be leaders now. 
 
We tell children to sit still and be quiet and then we wonder why they sit still and are quiet when they grow up. It's because that's what we told them to do!
 
We often call kids out for what they have done wrong. What if we started calling them up...calling them up to what God wants them to be and do. Calling them up to make a difference. Calling them up to living lives of faithfulness, integrity, and spiritual obedience.
 
Yes...we are excited to see them grow up and be used by God...but we are just as excited about seeing how God can use them now.    
 
Are you going to share this with your senior pastor?  That's obviously up to you. It could get you fired (ha) or it could help you gain more support and influence for the children's ministry you lead. 
 
It's not about us anyways. It's about reaching the next generation and their families. Share your heart with your senior pastor. He may have been waiting for a long time to hear this from you. You have to be the champion for children's ministry in your church. Lead strong my friend and be reminded of how important what you are doing is.